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Personalize Your Wedding: Escort Cards & Place Cards (And The Difference Between The Two!)

This week in the personalize your wedding series we are talking about escort cards and place cards. Before we get into how you can personalize these, let’s go over the difference between the two. Are you thinking “wait, there is a difference?” you are definitely in the majority. Most people don’t realize they are separate things and serve different purposes. There are a few reasons you should have both, and also reasons where you don’t need one of them. 

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Place cards are for the table setting. These are generally found on or around the seat where the guest should be sitting. Place cards are a way to indicate the meal a person should receive, and/or where they should be sitting. 

Escort cards are most often found all together on an escort table or in an escort area. They are used to guide each guest to their table. 

A few occasions when you should have both:

- If you have a large guest count it’s nice to make sure couples will be sitting directly next to each other. Sometimes a few people will sit down at a table and not pay attention to the single chairs on either side. This can be avoided by having both types of cards. 

- Plated meal with more than one meal option. Did you have guests select which meal they would like to have? This is when that will come into play. Place cards will help the servers know who ordered which specific meal. 

When is it okay to just have one? Which one should you have?

I always recommend having escort cards. Even with a small number of guests it helps the reception stay organized and be ready quickly. When there isn’t a seating chart you may end up with chairs moved around, some guests not comfortable with where they need to sit, or even running out of space. By creating a seating chart beforehand and then creating escort cards you are saving yourself, your vendors and your guests the trouble of doing the guess work. 

Now lets get to the fun part…how to show off your personality with either option. 

Escort cards and seating cards can really add to your wedding day theme and be a reflection of your personality. Pinterest has endless ideas, (check out our escort & place card board here!) but try thinking outside of the box a little bit.

Is there something small that has been a symbol of your relationship? 

Did you meet in Georgia? What about having a calligrapher write on peaches? We once used oranges with calligraphy and it was adorable!

Do the both of you enjoy a delicious cup of coffee? A mini jar with coffee grounds and a calligraphy tag with a table number is a sweet idea. 

For the nautical hearts like ours, we love including beachy details. Beach glass place cards, or oyster shell escort cards. There are so many options when it comes to nautical themes. 

Some other fun ideas are candles with personalized labels for a romantic wedding, a small herb with a wooden stick as the table number for a couple that loves to garden together, or even back to simple and have a calligrapher write your escort cards in colors to match your wedding. 

Did you know the difference between escort and place cards? Which of these ideas is your favorite? 

Yolanda & James | Lewes, Delaware Wedding

From the night I spoke with Yolanda over the phone about the adorable way James proposed (on the beach in Lewes) we knew they would be the best couple to work with. Their love for each other was undeniable and that was made even more aware as we sat in Panera a week after our first phone call going over wedding details. As we all counted down the days to their wedding, the excitement grew stronger for all of us. The nautical details, the fact that their ceremony was taking place as the ferry was arriving, and the beauty of their love story all came together to be the perfect day. 

No matter what happened throughout their day, they were calm and had full trust in their vendor team. Even when we found out 18 hours before the wedding that the only road in and out of the ceremony location would be closed for two hours right around their ceremony time, they were calm, cool, and collected knowing that no matter what we would make it work. Their wedding was beautiful from beginning to end. Yolanda had not one but three beautiful dresses, we loved them all! They started the reception with the coolest first dance, and ended the evening when they thanked their guests and were off through a tunnel of sparklers. 

On top of Yolanda and James having a beautiful day all around, working with a bride that has everything together makes everything that much better! Yolanda had labeled bins with every detailed aspect of the wedding inside of them- the organization brought a tear to my eye. 

Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography
Enchanting Events and Design Maryland Wedding Planner Sue Forteir Photography

 

Photography: Fortier Photography 

Videography: David Troth Wright

Flowers: The City Florist

Ceremony Venue: Cape May-Lewes Ferry, Lewes Terminal

Reception Venue: Kings Creek Country Club

DJ: DJ Waxx